community/phodav: upgrade to 3.0

changelog: https://gitlab.gnome.org/GNOME/phodav/-/blob/4a36c18a/NEWS

- !27 - Port to libsoup3
- !26 - forbid PUT method on a read-only shared folder
- !25 - Add chezdav --realm runtime flag
- !24 - Build on OSX/Darwin
- !22 - Add chezdav --no-mdns runtime flag
- !19 - Allow specifying systemd/udev directories
- !18 - man pages updates
- CI, tests and build fixes
- translations updates

systemd and udev are now detected automatically and enabled when available:

Run-time dependency systemd found: NO (tried pkgconfig and cmake)
Run-time dependency udev found: YES 243