community/mutter: upgrade and fix dependencies

As a follow-up of !30271 (merged) @psykose figured out that mutter also needed to be rebuilt. I had missed it because grepping for libwacom in aports hadn't found mutter. So I looked in the package for missing explicit dependencies, and I figured out there were some unnecessary ones and some others missing.

Just for the reference, a the output from meson introspect --scan-dependencies meson.build | jq: mutter-deps

In the process, I also upgraded to latest stable.

Probably it makes much more sense to look at the commits individually than at the whole diff at once