Draft: community/gnome-software: upgrade to 41.1
This is a MR just to ease testing of the plugin, since quite some things changed since 3.38.
- gnome-software changed their library build from static to dynamic in GNOME 40
- the untested patch for GNOME 40 and GNOME 41 (version 16 of the plugin api) has been included.
- include an extra patch in software to reduce noise in output. It just got merged upstream.
-  test plugin enough so that it can be merged upstream
-  move
libssubpackage. This would avoid that the plugin has to depend in